Romans 12:9,11-13 says
"Love Must be Sincere, hate what is evil , cling to what is good.. Never be lacking in zeal but keep your spiritual fervor serving the Lord. Be JOYFUL in hope, PATIENT IN AFFLICTION (!!!!!) faithful in prayer. Share with God"s ppl in need. Practice hospitality.

13:8 let no debt remain outstanding except the CONTINUING debt to love another for he who loves his fellow man has fulfilled the law.

Patience for m & p
Acceptance for situations that should not be altered
Hope for a God planned future

Stop resisting,
Stop assessing
Simply start afresh.