blessings~

Glanced at the pics for my bday and realised how some of my closest friends have stayed around this long..

For a long time it felt good being in big cliques.. like how it was in school .. hanging around the 20+ 'troublemaker' group felt cool.. watching movies with 3 rows of the cinema filled with us felt awesome!

even in college- being in the cool athletics or (not so cool)academically challenged class ..didnt leave me feeling inferior.. studies was never a priority to me, company w e classmates or the bf then was key..

but then we live , we learn and then we realise that some friends are good to keep and others.. even if they weren't that close didnt really matter.. so I allowed myself to drift from groups that weren't too edifying or reduced hangouts with those whom I used to hang out for the plain sake of it..

Perhaps treasuring life and the important people makes one more purposeful..
seeing lives come and go makes it more crucial to make the most and best of time spent
more quality focussed and large groupie hangouts was of less or no importance..

and when I look back special days.. they always seem more complete with certain people..
looking at some of these pics.. there was a sense of warmth seeing them around..
even tho it was a relatively big group,
within it lies some very very true friends..
some I would make huge sacrifices for.. =)

truly blessed.